softie's boundaries


“Softie” is an online persona, not personal access to me.

  • If you know me as Softie, please understand you will never know me on a personal level. My anonymity is important to me and not something I’ll give up for anyone.

Keep things respectful and not parasocial.

  • Please don’t treat me like your partner, best friend, or emotional support system. Enjoy the content, but remember we don’t have a personal relationship and I don't owe you anything.

Don’t guess personal details about me.

  • No speculation about my name, location, or anything private. I won’t respond to it and if its repeated behaviour I will probably block you.

DMs are okay on most platforms… except Discord.

  • Please don’t message me privately on Discord, send me a friend request or pressure me into sending you a friend request. Everywhere else is fine as long as it stays respectful and you don't expect a reply.

Don’t demand my attention or time

  • I can’t always reply quickly. If you pressure me by bringing it up in other chats or comments, I’ll simply block you. Mutual respect is important.

Don’t try to blur or push boundaries.

  • If I say no or set a limit, don’t joke about it, negotiate, or keep testing it. Kindness includes accepting boundaries the first time.

I’m happy to play games together but only if you’re in my Discord server.

  • It’s the only place I know everyone is an adult.

  • I will happily add you guys on my game accounts so long as I don't have really limited spaces, but I won't accept unless you tell me that you're adding me

  • Feel free to ask me to play, just please don’t push if I’m busy or if i choose to do something else instead.

  • If I say "no" on one occasion it really doesn't mean anything that deep.

No alternate accounts or platform-hopping for attention.

  • If I don’t reply somewhere, contacting me again from a different place isn’t respectful.

No trauma dumping.

  • I care, but I’m not a therapist and I can’t carry heavy personal disclosures. Please reach out to trained support if you’re struggling.


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commission terms

What I offer

  • Custom ASMR audio based on your prompt.

  • Pricing: £5 per minute (SFW) // £10 per minute (NSFW)

  • Final file format: MP3 (delivered digitally via email).

  • I reserve the right to decline prompts I’m not comfortable with.

Turnaround time

  • Most commissions will be delivered within 10–14 days of order.

  • Larger/complex requests may take longer, but I’ll keep you updated.

Revisions

  • 1 free minor revision included (small wording/intonation tweaks).

  • Additional revisions are £5 each.

  • Revisions cannot fundamentally change the original request.

Communication

  • Please include your prompt details when ordering.

  • For updates or questions, contact me via Ko-Fi messages or via email ([email protected])

Refunds

  • Full refund available only before I begin recording.

  • Once recording has started, refunds are not available.

  • If for any reason I cannot complete your order, you’ll receive a full refund.

Usage rights

  • Commissions are for personal use only.

  • You may not resell, redistribute, or upload commissioned audios to YouTube, Patreon, or other platforms without explicit commercial rights agreed in advance.

  • I retain all rights to the audio. I may post full, shortened or adapted versions of commissioned works on my socials/platforms.

  • If you wish to keep your commissioned audio private and exclusive, you must add the Privacy Fee (40%) when ordering.

Additional notes

  • All of my commissions are for 18+ only. By ordering, you confirm you are of legal age.

  • I will not create content involving: underage themes, non-consent, incest, slurs, bestiality, or any other illegal/harmful content.


How to spoil me!

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